Accounta-buddy Check In

Hi friends!

I’m fighting the Sunday night slump by focusing on how amazingly productive I’ve been today.

That must mean it’s time to catch up on my self-imposed accountability challenge. Ready…set…recap!
accountability to do list recap

  • Write meta descriptions: nope

I was about to do this right now, but I’m realistic that my time and energy is waning and if I wrote those descriptions I wouldn’t have written this post. So this did not happen.
  • Add more meals to the plan: yes!

I added all the salads I wanted to, plus a couple extra snacks that I wasn’t planning on adding, and got the plans emailed out today. I’m pretty thrilled with the meal plans and prep plans that I created for my friends this week. The calories are right on point, there are a ton more vegetables, and they’re significantly less grain heavy.
  • Attend my work event: yup

Leon was my date on Wednesday for cocktails and snacks and schmoozing.
  • Pay water bill: done

I’m loving this whole not waiting until the very last minute to pay bills thing.
  • Buy plane tickets for New York in July: yes

Nothing like getting to the very end of the buying process and having Delta tell you that the ticket price went up in the time it took you to fill out all the dumb forms. So we’re flying American.
  • Alter my skirt: kind of

I put the skirt on to mark where I needed to move the buttons to and it fit perfectly. Either I gained weight or I didn’t tuck my shirt in when I tried it on the first time around. I’m pretty fine either way so I’m counting this as kind of done.
  • Write my follow up post: almost done

Give me a few more sentences and this one will be done.

Granted, I did a lot of these things today. Suddenly Leon and I became very popular this week with birthday drinks one night, overnight guests two different nights, and a housewarming party, so all my tasks got pushed until today. I’m pretty okay with that, though.

I’m especially okay with that because it means that I feel freshly productive and capable for the week ahead.

So tell me, friends, what’s your Sunday ritual? Grocery shopping? Chores? Sunday funday?


Cheers, Kara

Be My Accounta-buddy?

Happy Monday friends!

Normally you don’t wish someone a “happy Monday,” but Monday is over and I’m happy about that. So it counts.

Before I dive in, I want to thank you all so much for reading my inspiration post about Cypher University. You all loved that post, so I promise that I’ll 1) write more posts about inspiration, and 2) go to more awesome hip hop shows and tell you about them.

It’s time for you all to have another go-round as my accounta-buddies. (For those of you that don’t know, that means “accountability buddies” and the original post about it is here.)

As I was trying to make my next appointment with the seamstress that’s altering my wedding dress (eeeeeeek!) I realized that my schedule is getting crazy. With wedding things and summer things and life things and all the other things, I’m finding that my To Do list keeps growing and stupidly easy things keep getting pushed back. So that’s what this Get Shit Done List is all about.
to do list accountability

  • Write meta descriptions.

I really need to up my SEO game on this blog. I’m not looking to monetize this blog by any means, but I do love flexing my digital marketing muscles, so this will be a fun project.

  • Add more meals to the plan.

I’m currently writing weekly meal plans and food prep plans for a couple of friends to help them eat healthier and hit some of their #gainz goals and I want to add a couple more salads to the mix now that it’s getting warmer.
  • Pay water bill.
Since Leon and I merged our finances I have been kicking ass at paying bills more then two days before they’re due. I want to keep that streak going.

work clothes business casual cubicle
Have I mentioned that I love business clothes?
  • Attend my work event.

The temp agency that I’m working with is having an event on Wednesday. This is an easy one that I’m going to check off, so consider this me padding the list a little so I can have a win.

  • Buy plane tickets for New York in July.

Leon and I are going to Long Island in July to finalize a bunch of stuff for the wedding and I need to book those tickets before the prices go up. Unless you know some actual tips for getting cheaper plane tickets. If you do, please share!

  • Alter my skirt.

I bought a killer white wrap skirt from Ann Taylor a month ago and it’s a bit big, so I need to move the buttons to make it wrap tighter.

  • Write my follow up post.

Okay. I’m padding this list again. I’m totally okay with that.

So there’s my list for this week. If I can get all those very easy, mostly quick tasks done I will consider it a very successful week. I’ll check back in with you on Sunday to tell you how it went.

What’s on your list this week, friends? I’ll be more than happy to hold you accountable.

Cheers, Kara


Get Inspired: Hip Hop Showcase

Hiya friends!

Let’s talk about inspiration, shall we?

Inspiration is something that I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. As I mentioned in an earlier post, I’m pretty far from where I want to be professionally. I’m not in my dream job. I may be significantly closer than when I worked in HR, so I’m happy about that, but it’s still a long way from my dream job. Such a long way, in fact, that I feel a little like an Underwear Gnome.

south park underwear gnomes profit
I don't like South Park, but I like Underwear Gnomes.
So given that those middle steps are still very vague and hazy I’ve been finding it hard to inspire myself to make moves when, for all I know, those moves could be in the complete wrong direction. I mean, Step 2 is still so hazy that I can’t even make a SMART goal about it!

inspirational quote
This quote is not inspiring in the least.

I’m not the only person who feels that way, right?

So here’s what I’ve been trying lately to get inspired and keep Step 2 in my sights. Hint: it’s not bullshitty quotes on pictures.
get inspired inspirational

Last week I went to a hip hop showcase. My friend came into town because she is making a documentary on a group of emcees that were putting on a show. I had absolutely no clue what I was walking into.

It turns out that I walked into a group of amazingly talented, amazingly brave artists. How talented were they?

I stayed out two hours later than I planned, which is huge because I don’t give up sleep easily.

Watching these emcees perform was beyond energizing. They held nothing back. They put everything out there. They cared as much about respecting and supporting their fellow performers as they did about what the crowd thought of them.

These guys (and one very talented lady) were normal guys. They were nerdy college students. One was a college professor. One worked at Planet Fitness. One puffed on an inhaler before starting. And they were doing this unbelievably cool thing. Their rhymes were so original and they talked about real things, not fur coats and banging hoes and whatever else rappers today talk about.

Watching these guys perform, I couldn’t help but get inspired. I’m not going to buy a rhyming dictionary and try to perform with them anytime soon (or ever, probably), but I want to be more like them.

I want to grind and grind and grind without recognition like they do, simply because I love what I’m grinding at so much. I want to encourage other people to get better and work harder without fear that they’re going to surpass me. I want to put myself out there and do big, amazing things without fear of failing in front of people.

I want to fail in front of people and then try again.

These guys were doing all those things and they were doing them set to a beat. Like I said, this whole night was beyond inspiring. I left feeling energized and ready to make moves.

I didn’t make moves that night because, again, I love sleep. But that energy and all the poorly shot cell phone videos I look that night are going to carry me through a lot of grinding to come.

What about you, friends? What has inspired you lately?


Cheers, Kara

Happy Crossfit Injury-versary

Hello friends!

Today is kind of a special day for me. And thanks to the magic that are content calendars and scheduled posts, I am able to publish this post on the actual day (not three days late like I am with birthday cards).

Anyway…

Today is the two year anniversary of when I f’ed my shoulder up at Crossfit. It’s also kind of the one year anniversary of when I grew up a little.

I remember April 2, 2014 very well. I had been doing Crossfit for 22 months. I was absolutely not the best Crossfitter, but I had finally overcome the knee injury that I had when I started and the hip problem I developed while doing it, so I was feeling great.

Hell, I was 23. I had that Blink 182 song stuck in my head for the whole year (and if you click on that link you will, too), so I felt like a straight badass all year. Crossfit only fueled that badass attitude. Of course I felt great!

crossfit box greensboro
Just your typical, industrial Crossfit gym.
Anyway, the workout was a tough one.

100 toes to bar15 wall balls every time you come off the pull up bar

(Links to movements.)

I was just getting the hang of toes to bar and walls balls were never a favorite of mine. I could have scaled it down with a lighter wall ball or an easier ab move, but I was a badass! Badasses don’t scale!

Also, I had promised myself that if I did 10 workouts without scaling I could get a pedicure.

So I did the workout as written. I came off the pull up bar a bunch and missed a bunch of the wall balls. Nothing about it was fun or enjoyable, but I did it because that’s what a Crossfitter does.

And if you know anything about Crossfit stereotypes, you know that getting injured is also what a Crossfitter does. And that’s exactly what happened next.

Bright, sharp pains were shooting and radiating through my shoulder. Taking off my sweaty sports bra when I got home was nearly impossible and involved a good bit of rolling on the bed and counting “1…2…3” as I coaxed myself to move.

I’m not going to recount the whole next year. It involved lots of pretending I was okay, “going light” on the weights, and one handed hair washing.

A gym switch and a year later, I was onto my second doctor with no real improvement to show for it. But as I was telling that second doctor all about my year long injury (and all my other injuries) I had a very interesting revelation.

Here goes:

Crossfit (and anything else that causes you to push yourself) is really great, but only until you push yourself to stupid, painful places. And once you get to that point you lose all the benefits you gained from pushing yourself in the first place.

A shorter version of that revelation is this:

Pushing yourself is great, but only when you do it smartly and with control. Once you lose control you lose all of the benefits.

crossfit box inspiration
I'm definitely not the fastest, but I'm probably not the slowest.

That’s a tough understanding for a 24 year old and a Crossfitter to come to. Both of those things lent themselves to making me think that I was invincible and all my decisions were great.

I’m definitely not invincible and my decisions are not all great. (This is the point when all of my older, more mature friends start nodding and laughing at me. That’s fair. I deserve it.)

In the year since I’ve had that revelation my shoulder has gotten better. It still bothers me sometimes and likely always will. But the difference between 23 year old me and 25 year old me (aside from lots and lots of things) is that I’m completely and totally okay with having limitations. I no longer view limitations as things that need to be blindly defied.

This is not saying that I’m accepting mediocrity or that I’m succumbing to complacency. I’m not doing either of those things. I’m still Crossfitting  and setting crazy goals and being a badass in other ways. But now I’m more of an intentional badass with a little bit of self-control and forethought (and a bum shoulder). 
crossfit competition #WOTW
Competing in my first Crossfit competition and not expecting to win. 

So there you go. Happy anniversary to my shoulder and to my small modicum of maturity.

Your turn, friends. Tell me about your sport injuries.


Cheers, Kara

#NoHateInMyState

Hello friends!

I’ve got an out of the ordinary post for you today, but it needs to be said.

(And it needs to be said using some pretty strong language, so consider yourself warned.)

Last night North Carolina fucked up.

If you live in North Carolina, are tuned into LGBT issues, or are a human you’ve probably heard about the Bathroom Bill.

For those of you who haven’t heard about it, here’s the gist:

Charlotte passed a city ordinance recently allowing transgender individuals to use the public bathroom that corresponds with the gender they identify as, not the one they were born with.

As to be expected in a state that is firmly in the Bible Belt, people lost their shit. Yesterday (March 23) the General Assembly went into a special session and pushed through HB2, amid lots of protest and a walk out by the Senate Democrats. Late Tuesday night Gov. Pat McCrory signed it into law.

HB2 repeals Charlotte’s Bathroom Bill, prohibits cities and counties from writing non-discrimination ordinances that protect LGBT people, and takes away the ability of citizens to file certain types of discrimination lawsuits in North Carolina courts, among other things. It is a bullshit bill, to say the least.

I don’t actually want to talk about the bill, though. Enough people are spitting venom about this right now and doing a better job at it than I could. I want to talk about the way North Carolinians have responded.

They’ve responded with ownership.

#NoHateInMyState and #WeAreNotThis flooded social media. Lists of the responsible politicians that are up for re-election (and the candidates running against them) have been posted and reposted and shared.

I have not heard a single person talking about fleeing the state or any of the other bullshit that people say during presidential elections when they are angry, but not angry enough to put actions behind their words.

I have seen people getting angry and talking about ways they can fix the problem. I have seen people filling the streets in protest outside the Governor’s Mansion (and getting arrested for being there).

Without a doubt, this is a bullshit bill. It was a bullshit move by bullshit politicians. It is putting countless lives in danger and reaffirming fears based in ignorance and misinformation. And despite the fact that North Carolina is a national embarrassment right now (as it fucking should be!), I am unbelievably proud of the way certain North Carolinians have responded. I am proud of the ownership they have taken of their state and their willingness to not abandon ship or focus on blame.

I didn’t grow up in North Carolina, but today, more than ever, I am proud that this is my new home. #NoHateInMyState

What do you think of all this bullshit, friends?


Cheers, Kara

SMART Goal Setting: Job Hunting

Hello friends!

It’s 11:30p on Friday night as I’m writing this. I was dozing on the couch half an hour ago, but then I got off the couch and brushed my teeth, so now I’m wide awake.

Does minty toothpaste make anyone else wide-awake?

So it’s time to start ticking items off that big list Iposted a couple weeks ago. First on the list is job hunting, more specifically setting SMART goals to get a job.

In case you missed it before, I have a job! I’m doing marketing and communications for a B2B generator company. Technically it’s a temp job as they rebrand and launch a new website, but it has the possibility of becoming permanent.


 SMART Goal Setting: Job Hunting

Getting this job was not easy. It was the culmination of a very long-term plan. Most of that plan isn’t relevant to you, unless of course, you never left the humanities building in college and somehow ended up in a dead end HR job. But since I highly doubt that is the case for most of you, I’ll skip to the actual job hunting part.

Specific: Get a full time job in marketing, PR, or communications.
Meaningful: This is something that I’ve been slowly working towards for a long time. I left my well-paying full time job to go back to school for this goal. That’s about as meaningful as it gets.
Measurable: Luckily this is a yes or no question. Do I have a full time job in marketing? Yes, then I succeeded. No, then I need to keep working.
Action Oriented: I took a two-fold approach to this goal. First, I applied for jobs. Monday through Friday I sat down at my computer and wouldn’t get up until I had either applied for four jobs or exhausted the job postings for the day. This meant customizing four resumes, researching four companies, and writing four cover letters based on the research and the job posting. This was not an easy task and I got so sick of talking about myself, but no one is going to knock on your door and offer you a job, so this was very necessary.
My second actionable approach was to work to bolster my resume. I did this by getting online certifications, writing this blog, creating an online portfolio, and doing as many odd-job marketing projects as I could. Depending on your industry you should be able to find a handful of free or cheap online certification courses that you can take in your free time.
Realistic: I had a good amount of experience, some relevant education, I was regularly adding new items to my resume, and I wasn’t shooting for a high-level position. An entry-level position, especially in a city that is going through as much of a boom as Raleigh is right now, was well within my grasp.
Timely: This is where I broke my rule a little. I didn’t have a set time limit on this goal. That’s not entirely realistic for a goal like this. I did have daily requirements – working from 9-5p to apply for at least four jobs and then fill the rest of my time with bulking up my resume – so that served to as a daily check-in for me as to whether or not I was living up to this goal.

work appropriate dress cubicle
Sitting in my cubicle in my favorite dress!
I put this goal in place and after several weeks, a large handful of phone interviews, and a small handful of second/in-person interviews, I got a job!

Is this my dream job?

Hell no! Not even close!


But my goal was not to get my dream job. It was to get a full time marketing job. And I did that. So I was successful.

What about you, friends? Do you have your dream job? Do you know what your dream job is? (I do! And it's such a scary feeling.)

Cheers, Kara

Happy Things for Friday: Selfies, Smoothies, and Showers

Hello friends!

Look! I didn’t abandon you again. Consider this me setting a precedent.

I had every intention of working on checking things off my list from last weekend, but I had kind of a crappy day, so instead I want to talk about wonderful things that make me happy.

  • This selfie.


I’ve been all about the selfies lately. Normally I do the duck face, but I was a little tipsy this night and really loving my hair, so I wanted to make a different face. And damn, I look cute!

Thanks to Pandora at work all day, every day I have discovered these three guys and I am really loving them. I find them especially helpful while writing strategy plans and Photoshopping my boss’ face.
  • My smoothie game!


Normally I weigh out all the ingredients for my smoothies as part of my Sunday food prep, but the battery in my food scale died, so I had to guestimate everything. Well, my guestimating was off, because I ended up with very, very green smoothies this week.


As a borderline crazy dog lady, these crack me up. My dogs have definitely made some of these shapes.
  • This whole situation.


I love this woman’s tattoos. I love this idea. I love yoga and have been doing it more lately, which makes me feel amazing.
  • My wedding shower.

Leon and I are having a co-ed shower in Macon, GA (my hometown) at the end of April, so I’ve been texting back and forth with my mom and maid of honor all week to plan it. It’s going to be so much fun and I am especially excited to see some of my Macon friends that I haven’t seen in forever, drink summery sangria in my mom’s amazing backyard, and buy a fun, bright dress.

Those are the things that are making me happy this week, despite the fact that I don’t have hot water. (Long story, don’t ask.)

What’s making you happy this week, friends?


Cheers, Kara

Catch Up: Raleigh, Temp Job, Crossfit

Hi strangers!

Remember when I used to write a lot and keep you updated on my life and occasionally say useful things?

Yeah, I barely remember that either.

Sorry that I’ve left you hanging, friends. Everything with my move to Raleigh suddenly got kicked into warp speed and I barely had time to breath. I’m finally relaxing a little – which is good because those stress dreams were getting weird – so now I have time for all the little life things that aren’t life-sustaining, like blogging, buying snack foods, and online shopping.

Those are all important pursuits, right?

So let’s ease ourselves back into this situation with a quick recap of what is going on in my life and what you can expect in the future.

  • I moved to Raleigh.

Leon and I got this great house in this weird little mini neighborhood that is amazingly close to downtown.
The view from my screened in porch, which I love.

  • I’m going to write a SMART goals post about house hunting.

It mainly involves the Action-oriented goal of limiting the number of times you cry in the car and the very Realistic goal of finding a house with at least one full bathroom.
  • I got a job!

Technically it’s a temp job, but it has the potential to become permanent. And considering they haven’t had anyone doing marketing since the last marketing coordinator left in 2012, there’s a serious backlog of work, so I’m pretty optimistic about my chances. Also, I’m a excellent marketer (said like Dustin Hoffman in Rainman), so that helps, too.
#DeskSelfie! 
  • I’m going to write another SMART goals post about job hunting.

Trust me, it will not in any way be a sales pitch for LinkedIn’s job seeker premium account because I think that’s a waste of money.
  • You might also get treated to a post about all the things I wanted to say to my coworkers, but didn’t because they might get me fired. If I write this post, it will be very colorful and feature lots of memes. 
  • Leon and I have merged our finances.

That meant we had a very, very honest conversation about our debt. And that conversation included Leon saying that he didn’t feel quite as bad about his student loan debt once he found out how much credit card debt I had. Oh yes, ladies and gents, that is my future husband.
  • We just took this big leap and aren’t too far into it, so I’m not planning on writing a post about that anytime soon.
  • I found a new Crossfit box and have started doing the Crossfit Open. You can definitely expect a post about that because most of you have no clue what words I just said.
  • I’m still working on that friend thing. And you can believe I will be writing plenty of posts about that and plenty of memes in those posts, as well.


Those are the highlights of my life lately. As you can see, that’s a lot going on, but most of it is exciting, some of it is good, and a few of the things don’t totally terrify me.

What’s going on with you, friends?


Cheers, Kara.

Going Away Weekend

Hello friends!

I had the most amazing weekend. And now I need to tell you all about it.

This was my last weekend in Greensboro. Leon and I are moving next weekend, so this was our last chance to see all our friends before we left. It was also our last chance to get rip roaringly drunk with these people without having to worry about crashing somewhere. And oh boy, did I drink.

On Friday night we threw a House Cooling party. Leon filled the bar with the makings for a few classic cocktails. 
wooden bar living room
Have I mentioned how much I love our bar? Because it's beautiful.
I went through the kitchen and whipped up a bunch of food using things that I didn’t want to have to move. Our friends came over and we ate and drank and drank and drank.
instagram selfie usie

On Saturday night some of my friends from Crossfit threw me a going away party. The party was at one of their absolutely gorgeous homes and almost everyone from our very tight knit 6am class was there. We ate and drank and drank and talked about a sex dream I had about a couple of our coaches and then drank some more.
crossfit friends beautiful house

This weekend was so beyond amazing and I think my face in those two pictures says it all. I have accumulated the most wonderful, colorful, bizarre group of friends in Greensboro. They are weird and they couldn’t be more different from each other and they are some of the most caring people I’ve ever met. I consider myself so lucky to have met them and to have gotten to spend time with them.

Despite how amazing this weekend was, it made me a little sad. I’m sad that I’m not going to be able to call these people up and pop down the street for tacos with them anymore. I’m sad that I’m not going to be able to start my day by seeing all those wonderful faces at the gym. I’m realistic and I know that I’m not very good at keeping in touch, and that makes me sad.

I know that Raleigh is going to be an amazing adventure and that somewhere there is my next WOD partner and margarita date and shopping buddy, just waiting for me to meet them. But that doesn’t make leaving any easier.

So for now, I’m nursing a hangover and cherishing every moment I got to spend with these amazing people this weekend.

How was your weekend, friends?


Cheers, Kara

To Do List, Check In

Happy Friday friends!

I’ve got a ton to do today because Leon and I decided to throw a last minute House Cooling Party for ourselves tonight and I’ve got a lot of cleaning to do. Before I dive into the topic today, I really need to share these pictures:
ceramic clowns


I was at a thrift store on Thursday to buy a vase and came across all these clowns. So of course, tons of questions popped into my head.
  1. Did one person donate all these clowns? If so, why did they collect them all and then suddenly decide they didn’t want them? Or are these just part of a much, much larger collection?
  2. Were these donated by many people? If so, why do so many people in Greensboro collect clowns? And what made them stop?

Okay, that’s all for my clown tangent. Now onto my To Do list.

As you know, I threw the accountability gauntlet down on Sunday when I posted my To Do list for the week. So now, I want to wrap up the gauntlet throwing by showing you how I did on my list for the week.
to do list accountability check in
To Do, week of February 1
  • Make a plan for moving (depending on the outcome of the lease application we put in on Friday)

I’m going to call this one done. Leon and I got approved for a house, we signed the lease and got a move in date, and we updated our current landlord that we’re leaving. We still need to get all the utilities taken care of, but we have a plan.
  • Apply for a bunch of jobs

Half done. I applied for a handful of jobs, but there weren’t a ton posted this week that fit what I’m looking for. I probably could have done more, so I’m only counting it as half done.
  • Finish my Hubspot Inbound Marketing certification

Done! I finished the classes, passed the test on the first try, and updated my resume and LinkedIn profile.
  • Workout 5 times, including leading yoga for my Crossfit friends on Thursday

Done! This was an easy one because working out has become a habit for me.
  • Job interview on Wednesday, including all the pre-interview research

Done! This interview ended up being over three hours, but everyone I spoke with was very nice and passionate about the company, which made it pleasant. Plus I was totally on my game! I was so on my game that I impressed myself! I’m feeling cautiously optimistic.
  • Write and post the next post in my SMART Goals series

  • Dust all the weird places in my house that I never think to dust, like the baseboard heaters and the fan blades and the tops of picture frames

Almost done. I cleaned a lot yesterday and will be finished tonight before our friends come over, so this will be done within a couple hours.
  • Work on my budgeting spreadsheet, including getting Leon’s student loans figured out

This one didn’t happen at all. Despite the fact that writing that SMART Goals post got me jazzed beyond belief to make spreadsheets, I was missing a few keys things that kept me from #MakingMoves on this one. Maybe I’ll move it to next week.
  • Finalize the tent rentals for my wedding

Done. Paperwork and payments have been sent and received.
  • Send my sister the plan for her flower girl outfit

Done. I gave her the information and told her to find a dress. Given that she’s 15 years old, though, I anticipate that “flower girl outfit” will find its way onto my To Do list again soon.

While I didn’t finish everything on my list, I got a ton done, including a handful of things that weren’t on this list. And I managed to do it all while still making time for dance breaks, walk breaks, and Twitter breaks.

Moral of the story: you all are amazing accounta-buddies! Great job, friends!

How was your week? Were you as productive as you wanted to be? Are you about to productively down some drinks like I am?


Cheers, Kara

SMART Goal Setting: Two Mini Goals Make a House

Good day friends!

I’m back with the second installment of my SMARTing series. Today I’m talking about my big goal of buying a house and the two mini goals I’m creating to get Leon and myself financially secure enough to buy a house.

This is going to be kind of a long one, so grab some coffee. Or grab a drink and we’ll turn this isn’t a drinking game. Drink every time you read the word “goal.” I promise you’ll end up drunk by the end of this post.


SMART Goal Setting: Two Mini Goals Make a House

If you read the first post on the basics, you already understand the process of setting SMART goals. (Drink!) If you haven’t read the first post, I would suggest going back and starting there. Setting SMART goals isn’t rocket science, but a little extra pre-preparation never hurt anyone.

So for the sake of re-Secreting: my goal is to buy a house in the next 12-18 months. To do that Leon and I need to pay down some debt – mostly student loans – to improve our debt to income ratio (which I’ll be referring to as debt:income from now on) and save as much as possible to use as a down payment.

Step one: tackling debt.

Leon and I are not going to pay all our debt off before buying a house. College is expensive and we’re not suddenly making six figures each, so making that goal would be unRealistic. Instead, we’re making the goal of paying off our two smallest loans and putting a dent in the other two.

Below is the layout of our SMART goal.

(Caveat: I’m not going to share the real dollar amounts of our goals/debt. Your debt and goals are different from mine; so knowing mine will only serve to feed your voyeuristic nature. Also, fake numbers make for easier math.)

Specific: Pay down $15,000 in debt.
Meaningful: Aggressively paying down debt will improve our debit:income and get us one step closer to our house.
Measurable: Dollars are very measurable. And the spreadsheet with specific monthly dollar amounts for each loan is also very measurable.
Action-oriented: We have $8000 in savings, so once we take out $2000 to use as an emergency fund, we’re plopping $6000 directly into debt. That will be our payment for the first month and leave us with $9,000 to pay down. From there we’re going to put $825 towards debt for the remaining 11 months. This will cover more than the minimum monthly payments and we’ll make the payments in a Dave Ramsey Snowball fashion. (That link is to an explanation of Ramsey’s Debt Snowball.)
$6000+($825*11)=$15,075
Yes, I realize that this is more than our goal, but I like easy numbers. So instead of paying $818.19 per month, we’re paying $825. An extra $75 won’t kill us, though.
Realistic: We built a strict, but doable budget. We built a little wiggle room for fun into our budget, plus we have that emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses.
Timely: We are giving ourselves 12 months to do this and we will be able to check in each month. I even made an awesome spreadsheet to hang on the fridge and every time we make a payment as planned we get to put a sticker on the spreadsheet.

Step two: saving as much as humanly possible.

This goal isn’t quite as set in stone as our debt goal. This goal represents the bare minimum since more savings is definitely a good thing, whereas we figured out that there isn’t much benefit to paying down more debt at the expense of our savings.

Specific: Save at least $16,000.
Meaningful and measurable: The amount that we save directly impacts the amount we can pay for a house, since we want to put a large percentage down. So this is a hugely meaningful goal. And again, dollars and my nerdy spreadsheets are immensely measurable.
Action-oriented: Our budget has allowed for $2250 per month to be put towards debt and savings, so with our debt plan in place we’ll have $1425 per month to put into savings. We’re going to start this goal a month after we start our debt goal so that we have money for all those fun moving expenses, so we’ll have 11 months to get to our goal.
$1425*11=$15,675
This still leaves a $325 gap, but I’m anticipating with birthday money and wedding gifts and Christmas bonuses and picking up change off the street, we’ll be able to make up that gap and then some.
Realistic: This amount is just a hair below being difficult. So $16,000 is without a doubt obtainable. Like I said before, though, this amount is the bare minimum.
Timely: Our plan for this mini goal runs for 12 months. Since our over-arching house buying goal gives us 12-18 months to buy a house, if we find that after 12 months we want to build up more of a down payment we’ll continue the same debt and savings plan for another 6 months.

Okay! Those are my mini goals. They are not exactly fun, because living with a super tight budget is pretty much never fun. They definitely don’t guarantee that we’ll be successful in buying a house, but we still stand a significantly better chance if we can stick to these goals (or at least in very close proximity to these goals). And that makes it worth it to me!

If you read all the way through to this point you are amazing. And if you were playing the drinking game version you are very drunk, because I said “goal” 23 times. Either way, thank you!


Cheers, Kara

Here's Some Great News

Hello my most wonderful friends!

I am in a beyond fantastic mood today! So many great things are happening and I want to share the happiness. I’m pushing the very educational SMART goals post I had written to tomorrow and instead sharing with you a random assortment of great news and fun pictures and other things to make you smile.

Here’s this tweet:

I checked and that URL does actually re-direct you to Trump’s Wikipedia page. This is both a wonderful idea and factually accurate.

Here’s a selfie I took the other day:


When I sent it to a friend she said that I looked remarkably more put together than usual. I said, “that’s what you get with a face full of makeup and bad lighting.” Clearly, my friends are very nice to me.

Here’s some great news:

Leon and I finally have a house to move into! After weeks of driving to Raleigh every other day and looking at so many houses, we put in an application and got approved. Now we have a move-in date and I feel like we can stop living in limbo.

Here’s some more great news:

I have a second interview tomorrow. I am being cautiously optimistic about this job. A career counselor once told me that on average a person has to interview for six jobs before getting an offer, and this will be my fourth job interview. And while I know that I am seriously impressive and far advanced in everything I do (just ask my mom), I would be way ahead of the curve if I actually get this job. But even still, I’m being cautiously optimistic.

Here’s my lunch:


The power unexpectedly went out last night, so Leon and I had to go out to dinner, and these are the leftovers. There are few things that I love more than leftover Mexican food. 

Here’s a succulent:


I am notoriously bad at keeping houseplants alive. I could show you some half-dead cacti that would make you very sad. But I have kept this little baby alive since my friend’s bridal shower back in the fall, and that makes me very proud.

That’s all the great, amazing news I have for the day. I am so happy and giddy and I am definitely dancing around the house to Meghan Trainor (my newest guilty pleasure). And let me tell you, my dance moves are show stopping!

Share some great news and funny things with me, friends. Let’s keep these good feelings going!


Cheers, Kara

To Do List, Accounta-Buddy Style

Hello friends!

It’s Sunday afternoon and I am feeling a very strong urge to make this coming week unbelievably productive.

Last week felt like a total loss. With my competition on Sunday, all my usual Sunday activities got pushed to Monday. Plus I drove to Raleigh twice to look at houses. Plus I drove to Virginia Beach on Thursday to attend my dad’s retirement lunch. Plus Leon’s car has been in the shop so I did a lot of chauffeuring him around. Plus I barely worked out and ate like crap. So essentially I spent most of last week living out of my car and not doing work or anything healthy.

Luckily, though, there’s nothing quite like eating lunch with some corporate big wigs to get my ass in gear (professionally speaking). Spending all day Saturday sipping on mimosas and taking dumb selfies also helped with the motivation because after such a completely unproductive day my natural inclination towards balance kicked in and now I want to do everything!

drinking mimosas
Why is my glass empty...again?
In an attempt to make this week count I’m turning all of you into my accounta-buddies. (That’s a cutesy term that my brother taught me for accountability buddies.) Below you’ll find my To Do list for the week. I’ll report back at the end of the week on how I did. But unlike my brother and his accounta-buddy, if I don’t complete a task I don’t except you to tweet at Nicole Curtis that I failed and make me retweet it.

If you feel compelled to tweet at Michelle Obama about my shortcomings, though, you are more than welcome to. Just remember to use #MakingMoves so Michelle knows that it’s a concerted effort.

get shit done list, to do list
Week of February 1
  • Make a plan for moving (depending on the outcome of the lease application we put in on Friday)
  • Apply for a bunch of jobs
  • Finish my Hubspot Inbound Marketing certification
  • Workout 5 times, including leading yoga for my Crossfit friends on Thursday
  • Job interview on Wednesday, including all the pre-interview research
  • Write and post the next post in my SMART Goals series
  • Dust all the weird places in my house that I never think to dust, like the baseboard heaters and the fan blades and the tops of picture frames
  • Work on my budgeting spreadsheet, including getting Leon’s student loans figured out
  • Finalize the tent rentals for my wedding
  • Send my sister the plan for her flower girl outfit


So that’s my plan for the week. It is all very much within the realm of possibility as long as I don’t get lazy or distracted.

What’s on your To Do list this week, friends? This is the part where you share so I can be your accounta-buddy, not so that you can put items from your list onto mine.


Cheers, Kara

My First Crossfit Competition - War of the WODs

Happy Monday friends!

This weekend flew by and I have a lot to tell you about, so let’s jump right into it. (Especially since if you had a surprise day off on Friday you probably have a lot to catch up on and few expendable brain cells.)

This weekend was my first Crossfit competition - War of the WODs! Getting there through the unplowed roads (because Greensboro doesn’t start plowing until several hours after the snow and sleet stops) wasn’t easy, but luckily, Leon is from Vermont so he has the necessary skill set to maneuver my Corolla through the roads.

Sunday came bright and early. By the time I got to the competition venue I was beyond nervous.

 The first event for my partner and I was the one we were most nervous about: the lifts! In this event there were four barbells set up with increasing weights: 65 lbs, 85 lbs, 105 lbs, and 125 lbs. Each team had 1 minute to get a total of 3 snatches and 3 clean and jerks. (Those are links to videos of each movement.) Your score is the total amount of weight you lifted and the tiebreaker was the time that each team got to the finish line after completing all the lifts.

Our strategy had us right at our maxes for each lift, which is a scary place to be when you only have a minute and when the warm up area is tiny and crowded and inadequately equipped and it’s your first competition and when you are in your own head so much that you don’t hit the lifts at all in the warm up.


So yeah, the Chicks with Chalk were freaking out.

Luckily, though, by the time we got to our heat all the coffee and pre-workout powder we drank kicked in and the music was good, so I was excitedly dancing at the start line. They counted down 3…2…1…

And before I knew it we were both chest bumping at the finish line because we made all our lifts.

Words cannot describe the excitement I felt after that first event was over. Really and truly, I don’t think I’ve ever felt that good or happy or proud. Adrenaline is one hell of a drug.

The rest of the day was spent cheering on friends and trying to figure out when we were supposed to do our next events.

Our second event was an 8 minute AMRAP (as many reps as possible):
21 over the bar burpees
21 calories on an airdyne
21 thrusters with 65 lbs
Repeat with reps decreasing by 3 until the time is up


The airdyne is a machine straight from hell and my quads were cramping for hours after we finished this one.

Our final event was a 9 minute AMRAP:
750m row while the other partner does 30 dumbell ground to overheads with 25 lbs
150 single jump ropes while the other partner does 30 slam balls with 20 lbs
40 knees to ninety degree while the other partner hangs from the bar
30 wall balls with 10 lbs
20 box jumps
With the remaining time, do as many pull ups as possible


We ended up with 22 pull ups, which I am very happy with.

By the end of the day I was completely exhausted. It took everything I had in me to pack up my stuff and walk across the icy parking lot. Luckily, Leon is amazing and picked up Mexican food, so I could take a hot shower and then eat chori-queso in my pajamas.

And today I am sore. Very sore. And I’m trying my hardest to recapture that unbelievably proud feeling I had after our first event, because as much as I hate to admit it, I’m disappointed in how we placed. My goal was to finish in the top half, but we didn’t even come close. And while I can’t pinpoint a single moment at which I could have pushed harder or done more (and I know my partner feels the same), I’m still disappointed.

Unhappily foam rolling my quads.
I am highly competitive by nature. That doesn’t mean I’m used to winning, by any means. I’m definitely no stranger to failing. And like I said, I harbored no delusions of winning this competition. But for some reason this competition is bugging me.

Maybe I’ll harness that disappointment into motivation for another competition.

What do you do when you’re disappointed in yourself, friends?


Cheers, Kara